"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's wrong with wingmen that push you to approach like machines and they don't approach themselves. Met a couple of guys like that today.
Both 19 yo. Every time we see a woman passing by they push me to approach. Told them it's not my type and they keep being persistent and say I was not giving them value and sht.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Scars

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Are you winging with strangers or what? I've always been very selective of my wings, they have to be close friends, and actually know wtf they're doing. In fact, in my early days, the guys I rode with were actually better with women than I was, and I learned a lot. A LOT.

Don't ride with people who put you down, but I will also say don't be afraid to go out of your comfort zone. Who cares if a girl "is not your type", if you're at a busy mall, chances are you will never see that girl again. Go talk to some girls, it will get you practice in the long run. I don't care if you hate freckles, go talk to the most souless ginger looking chick in a mile radius.. don't be a *****. Honestly, having a wing is about pushing each other, keeping each other in check, and instilling confidence. If you trust your wing, listen to him. Sounds like you were kinda just being a *****.. don't blame other people for it.

Reality check. *smack*
 
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