"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mustfirstregister

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What's wrong with wingmen that push you to approach like machines and they don't approach themselves. Met a couple of guys like that today.
Both 19 yo. Every time we see a woman passing by they push me to approach. Told them it's not my type and they keep being persistent and say I was not giving them value and sht.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scars

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Are you winging with strangers or what? I've always been very selective of my wings, they have to be close friends, and actually know wtf they're doing. In fact, in my early days, the guys I rode with were actually better with women than I was, and I learned a lot. A LOT.

Don't ride with people who put you down, but I will also say don't be afraid to go out of your comfort zone. Who cares if a girl "is not your type", if you're at a busy mall, chances are you will never see that girl again. Go talk to some girls, it will get you practice in the long run. I don't care if you hate freckles, go talk to the most souless ginger looking chick in a mile radius.. don't be a *****. Honestly, having a wing is about pushing each other, keeping each other in check, and instilling confidence. If you trust your wing, listen to him. Sounds like you were kinda just being a *****.. don't blame other people for it.

Reality check. *smack*
 
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