"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WingMen?... picking one?

Guitarfreakelite

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... obviously your wing man cant have all the dj skilz u have but what are some good things wing men must have?

chose wing men with extreamly good looks?
chose wing men who have extreamly bad looks?
chose wing men who talk alot?

ya get what im saying fill me in..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Porky

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Obviously a good wing man shouldn't be shy and shouldn't be ugly.

However, the most important feature is that he shouldn't be a selfish d1ck. I don't pick up with any of the guys I hang out with every weekend (my best friends I guess) because they're all douches about this sort of thing and have no interest in helping each other out. I've actually had them ask me to help ****block another guy.

The only good wing I can think of for me lives a good 35 minutes away. We only see each other every so often, but when we're together we're unstoppable. We talk every day or two and I'm never happier then when he's happy, and I know he feels the same.
 

blienk

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The biggest requirement is that he have different taste in girls than you, or at least be willing to compromise. You don't wanna be fighting over the same chick all the time. Remeber, the purpose of a wingman is to go after a group of chicks, not to double-team the same chick.
 

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Your gotta have good chemistry with ur wing. Understand each other. You also have to set rules for mutual understanding. If your wing chooses a target, and theres a UG tagging along, it's ur job to occupy the UG. Stuff like that.
 

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Originally posted by Daani
Your gotta have good chemistry with ur wing. Understand each other. You also have to set rules for mutual understanding. If your wing chooses a target, and theres a UG tagging along, it's ur job to occupy the UG. Stuff like that.

He's right, it's all in how you guys play off eachother to get the job done.

Main thing to remember, is be self-less when being a wing man, dont be an ass

~Bremen yank
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ice Cold

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Don't expect your wing to improve your game or make picking up chicks any easier.
 

DaVinci

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I prefer PIVOTS. (Hot Women You Go clubbing with)
There better then Wingmen. They provide the same skills as Wingmen but don't provide cometition. UNless it's FOR you
 

jonny football hero

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Pick a good mate. Thats all you need. Just remember that it's not all about you, he's gotta get him some too.
 

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they can have DJ skills, you want someone who is successful as then they are less likely to ****block you as they can get their own ones.
 
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