"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wingmen Finder: Application to Connect with Wingman Locally

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Don Juan
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Socializing and improving our game is always better with like-minded people by our side. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or just starting out, having a good wingman (or a group) can make a world of difference. I understand this because I'm one of those introverted guys who find it hard to go out and approach women by themselves.

But if you have a friend with you who's pushing you to do it while standing a few steps away from an attractive girl, you get this indescribable strength to just GO FOR IT.

Firstly, if you’re in Lahore, Pakistan (where I’m based), let’s connect and help each other out.

More importantly, I'm a software engineer, and I'm open to suggestions for implementing an application to make it easier for like-minded folks to connect and approach women in groups. Like a "wingman finder", or something of a similar nature.

I don't want to venture on my own in building an application that may or may not be helpful to the manosphere, without taking input from others.

That's why, I'd suggest anyone and everyone, reading this, to list out the features or share your ideas on what you would like to have in this application. I'll see what I can do to help.






Cheers.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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