"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have a quick question. I am a completely new to this whole thing. I still lack confidence, but I am improving every day (DJ boot camp week one). Any ways a guy PM-ed me today asking if I could be his wing man. I could use some that was once in my shoes to teach me the what I am doing wrong or what I am doing well (my shy friends just dont cut it, all they do is bring me down; tell me how ugly I am, and I should just give up). The thing is he is a beginner him self. I am 18 and he is 26,(to be honest I am kind of uneasy about the whole thing) I dont know what to do or not do. I need some advice. :confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would watch out, he might be a 26 yr old 200 pounder black homosexual who will rape u...................

















:D LOL.....I wouldnt meet anyone if i were u.....read the damn BIBLE!
 
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My thoughts exactly
 
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Originally posted by Vigilante7
I would watch out, he might be a 26 yr old 200 pounder black homosexual who will rape u...................

:D LOL.....I wouldnt meet anyone if i were u.....read the damn BIBLE!
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Great advise. Don't leave your house because whenever you leave you are in danger of being raped by a 200 lb black man. Stay in and read the bible and wait for the girls to come crawling through your window.

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