"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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amnbyrd

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So me and a friend were at Target. We see these 2 hbs. Didnt think much of it til were outside getting in my friends car. We see them walking to their car and they see us-they looked back at us like 2-3 times so I could tell they were def interested. Well my friend ended up kinda flipping out not really sure of what to do so we drove off and I talked him into turning around which we did. Then they drove by and we saw them at this gas station. I went inside and got something to drink as my friend started talking to them. When I got back out they were chatting and I introduced myself and we talked for a bit. He had already exchanged numbers with them. A few mins later we ran into them at the mall though they were with two guys which im guessing were just friends. We talked for a bit and went our ways. We'll prolly end up doubling up and seeing a movie tomorrow or something.
With this type of situation how do we establish who gets what girl? And is it ok for me to put their numbers in my phone even though my friend got it?(he later called them up and they want to get together and see a movie so Im assuming its gonna be a double as in both of them are interested in both of us)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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They havent gotten back to my friend so he's not really worried about it and I doubt he'll try to set anything up with them. Would it be ok if I contacted one of them and set up a date?
 
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