"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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amnbyrd

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So me and a friend were at Target. We see these 2 hbs. Didnt think much of it til were outside getting in my friends car. We see them walking to their car and they see us-they looked back at us like 2-3 times so I could tell they were def interested. Well my friend ended up kinda flipping out not really sure of what to do so we drove off and I talked him into turning around which we did. Then they drove by and we saw them at this gas station. I went inside and got something to drink as my friend started talking to them. When I got back out they were chatting and I introduced myself and we talked for a bit. He had already exchanged numbers with them. A few mins later we ran into them at the mall though they were with two guys which im guessing were just friends. We talked for a bit and went our ways. We'll prolly end up doubling up and seeing a movie tomorrow or something.
With this type of situation how do we establish who gets what girl? And is it ok for me to put their numbers in my phone even though my friend got it?(he later called them up and they want to get together and see a movie so Im assuming its gonna be a double as in both of them are interested in both of us)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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They havent gotten back to my friend so he's not really worried about it and I doubt he'll try to set anything up with them. Would it be ok if I contacted one of them and set up a date?
 
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