"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wingman failed

Davidclandes

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Hi guys,
I'm not sure whether this is the biggest failure in the wingmen history or not, but I'm gonna share with you and hear what you have to say.
My friend and I got to the club, he's been torn about the break-up. So yeah, as a normal friend would do, I played his wingman for the night. I helped him pick up a girl he met at the bar. Long story short, she ended up asking him my number.
Well, thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MrJack

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Hi guys,
I'm not sure whether this is the biggest failure in the wingmen history or not, but I'm gonna share with you and hear what you have to say.
My friend and I got to the club, he's been torn about the break-up. So yeah, as a normal friend would do, I played his wingman for the night. I helped him pick up a girl he met at the bar. Long story short, she ended up asking him my number.
Well, thoughts?
I wanna hear the long story not the short. I want to know details so I can try and figure out why he failed so hard. But agreed that's a pretty big fail.

Honestly not too surprised though if he's been torn about a breakup he obviously was mopey and didn't have his true game on his side.
 

ApolloSunGod

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Theirs rules to a wingman game its mutual understanding it all goes free for all..game is game if ask he should of just gave her the number that way you game her set date and ask to meet up with friend I would just I do this with my wingman & wingwoman..
 

Julian

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She chose you whats there to figure out
 
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