"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wing Opens Girl, Girl Opens Me, What to Do?

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I've noticed a few times if my wing or some dude I'm out with opens a girl, the girl will simply stop talking to him and talk to me instead. Or, she'll just stare at me, and I'll chat her up after he opened her.

One dude got pissed at me and said: "that was my set!" Another just sat down and pouted: "you ****blocked me!"

I felt somewhat bad about this, as I don't like to piss off wings, but if it seems like she is not interested him at all, and she is gaming me instead (verbally or staring at me) is she 'fair game?'
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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new_hotness said:
I've noticed a few times if my wing or some dude I'm out with opens a girl, the girl will simply stop talking to him and talk to me instead. Or, she'll just stare at me, and I'll chat her up after he opened her.

One dude got pissed at me and said: "that was my set!" Another just sat down and pouted: "you ****blocked me!"

I felt somewhat bad about this, as I don't like to piss off wings, but if it seems like she is not interested him at all, and she is gaming me instead (verbally or staring at me) is she 'fair game?'
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I've learned it is best to just let them fail on their own. Afterwards when they are pouting about it, just critique what went down (If they are they are anything like mine, they actually enjoy it) in hopes they can close next time.

But, I feel your pain! Happens all the time, and I hate to let HBs walk, especially on a low prospect night. Sometimes you cannot control yourself. Heard this last night “I was just about to say that”. LOL Sure you were Smokie! I had to step in because you sat there for 30 seconds with that look on your face like you just got caught with the neighbor’s dog.


Live it up!
 
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