"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wing Opens Girl, Girl Opens Me, What to Do?

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I've noticed a few times if my wing or some dude I'm out with opens a girl, the girl will simply stop talking to him and talk to me instead. Or, she'll just stare at me, and I'll chat her up after he opened her.

One dude got pissed at me and said: "that was my set!" Another just sat down and pouted: "you ****blocked me!"

I felt somewhat bad about this, as I don't like to piss off wings, but if it seems like she is not interested him at all, and she is gaming me instead (verbally or staring at me) is she 'fair game?'
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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new_hotness said:
I've noticed a few times if my wing or some dude I'm out with opens a girl, the girl will simply stop talking to him and talk to me instead. Or, she'll just stare at me, and I'll chat her up after he opened her.

One dude got pissed at me and said: "that was my set!" Another just sat down and pouted: "you ****blocked me!"

I felt somewhat bad about this, as I don't like to piss off wings, but if it seems like she is not interested him at all, and she is gaming me instead (verbally or staring at me) is she 'fair game?'
I've learned it is best to just let them fail on their own. Afterwards when they are pouting about it, just critique what went down (If they are they are anything like mine, they actually enjoy it) in hopes they can close next time.

But, I feel your pain! Happens all the time, and I hate to let HBs walk, especially on a low prospect night. Sometimes you cannot control yourself. Heard this last night “I was just about to say that”. LOL Sure you were Smokie! I had to step in because you sat there for 30 seconds with that look on your face like you just got caught with the neighbor’s dog.


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