"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wing Opens Girl, Girl Opens Me, What to Do?

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I've noticed a few times if my wing or some dude I'm out with opens a girl, the girl will simply stop talking to him and talk to me instead. Or, she'll just stare at me, and I'll chat her up after he opened her.

One dude got pissed at me and said: "that was my set!" Another just sat down and pouted: "you ****blocked me!"

I felt somewhat bad about this, as I don't like to piss off wings, but if it seems like she is not interested him at all, and she is gaming me instead (verbally or staring at me) is she 'fair game?'
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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new_hotness said:
I've noticed a few times if my wing or some dude I'm out with opens a girl, the girl will simply stop talking to him and talk to me instead. Or, she'll just stare at me, and I'll chat her up after he opened her.

One dude got pissed at me and said: "that was my set!" Another just sat down and pouted: "you ****blocked me!"

I felt somewhat bad about this, as I don't like to piss off wings, but if it seems like she is not interested him at all, and she is gaming me instead (verbally or staring at me) is she 'fair game?'
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I've learned it is best to just let them fail on their own. Afterwards when they are pouting about it, just critique what went down (If they are they are anything like mine, they actually enjoy it) in hopes they can close next time.

But, I feel your pain! Happens all the time, and I hate to let HBs walk, especially on a low prospect night. Sometimes you cannot control yourself. Heard this last night “I was just about to say that”. LOL Sure you were Smokie! I had to step in because you sat there for 30 seconds with that look on your face like you just got caught with the neighbor’s dog.


Live it up!
 
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