Win a Girl Back

[mrgoodstuff]

If she's not getting the 'tingles' you are wasting your time.

But to answer your question... No I have NEVER been able to turn things around with a woman that fells no sexual attraction towards me.... Sorry man, it just can not happen. But HEY look at the bright side, 15 years ago you would not have been able to find a website that tells you like it is, so you would have likely wasted months if not YEARS trying to make something doomed happen. Now you can flush her from your mind and go after other women.

He can do it. Like if he's fat or and not dressing well and taking good care of himself. She will see him later after he gets it together and be like "wow, I didn't know you looked this sharp". Sometimes it happens like that. But it is a waste of time to try wait around for this.

 

[Tictac]

Whats the best way to get the tingle?

Back off. Let her come to you in her own time. "Her own time" may be never. So get and stay busy with your life.

It can seem counter-intuitive, but over-pursuit is the main source of 'lack of chemistry'.

It was a joke song title but apt - "How Can I Miss You If You Won't Go Away"

 

[RangerMIke]

Back off. Let her come to you in her own time. "Her own time" may be never. So get and stay busy with your life.

It can seem counter-intuitive, but over-pursuit is the main source of 'lack of chemistry'.

It was a joke song title but apt - "How Can I Miss You If You Won't Go Away"

The point is there is nothing you can do to turn this around, be the best you can be... but you should be doing this anyway. She has to, on her own see you in a different light, if she changes her mind, well.... that 's on her. But why waste your time on stuff like this. Have women 'changed their minds' about me, sure, but it is NOTHING I did different, usually it's something else beyond my control, a dude that she was interested in disappeared, or something in her life changed and NOW she thinks I fit a particular need..... It's much easier just going after other women.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

The point is there is nothing you can do to turn this around, be the best you can be... but you should be doing this anyway. She has to, on her own see you in a different light, if she changes her mind, well.... that 's on her. But why waste your time on stuff like this. Have women 'changed their minds' about me, sure, but it is NOTHING I did different, usually it's something else beyond my control, a dude that she was interested in disappeared, or something in her life changed and NOW she thinks I fit a particular need..... It's much easier just going after other women.

Your right RangerMike. Sometimes you have to do NOTHING. It's all about the hamster wheel in her brain and what makes sense to her. No sense of waiting around for it though. One of the best things you can do with an ex or low interest "girl" is to live your life well and spend time with OTHER women. Many of them all of a sudden get interested.