Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
He can do it. Like if he's fat or and not dressing well and taking good care of himself. She will see him later after he gets it together and be like "wow, I didn't know you looked this sharp". Sometimes it happens like that. But it is a waste of time to try wait around for this.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Back off. Let her come to you in her own time. "Her own time" may be never. So get and stay busy with your life.
The point is there is nothing you can do to turn this around, be the best you can be... but you should be doing this anyway. She has to, on her own see you in a different light, if she changes her mind, well.... that 's on her. But why waste your time on stuff like this. Have women 'changed their minds' about me, sure, but it is NOTHING I did different, usually it's something else beyond my control, a dude that she was interested in disappeared, or something in her life changed and NOW she thinks I fit a particular need..... It's much easier just going after other women.
Your right RangerMike. Sometimes you have to do NOTHING. It's all about the hamster wheel in her brain and what makes sense to her. No sense of waiting around for it though. One of the best things you can do with an ex or low interest "girl" is to live your life well and spend time with OTHER women. Many of them all of a sudden get interested.