"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Had a nice little FWB going for the past 3-4 months now. I typically initiated every encounter but she was always more than willing to jump at the opportunity to hang out. We hadn't spoken in about a month until today, I asked her what her schedule was like this week and she replied with "busy."

I'm pretty good aquaintances with her roommate so two things I know for sure:

1. She isn't seeing anybody else
2. She is legitimately busy (3 jobs, school part time)

I figure I'll wait a while and try to arrange something again in a week or two. If it doesn't pan out I have no qualms about cutting ties, but just wanted to reach out and see what others thoughts/suggestions were.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JonnyD123 said:
Had a nice little FWB going for the past 3-4 months now. I typically initiated every encounter but she was always more than willing to jump at the opportunity to hang out. We hadn't spoken in about a month until today, I asked her what her schedule was like this week and she replied with "busy."

I'm pretty good aquaintances with her roommate so two things I know for sure:

1. She isn't seeing anybody else
2. She is legitimately busy (3 jobs, school part time)

I figure I'll wait a while and try to arrange something again in a week or two. If it doesn't pan out I have no qualms about cutting ties, but just wanted to reach out and see what others thoughts/suggestions were.
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If you need more time add a plate. She doesn't have time. You may be able to get a couple 1 hr slots from per per week around bedtime, but that's about it.
 
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Yes but it'll be like when you suggest a date she will reschedule, so it might be "i'm busy as hell the next couple of days but I want to see you, hows friday?" then she actually will show up.

Not interested "busy" = just "i really want to see you but i'm just so busy" with no suggestion of a reschedule

it's easy to spot the difference, if they don't suggest a reschedule, throw them on the backburner and only move forward if she starts grovelling
 
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In this situation if you like spending time with her why not organize "to put her to sleep" on several nights with sex around bedtime. She's not going to have a lot of time to go on dates and things like this, but this is something she may be interested in.
 
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