Will talking about it kill the flirt?

[Lambda]

I have a flirt going on at work. It has been going on for two months now. Since we work together and all, I guess its best to keep it lightly. But the good thing is that in a few weeks we will not work together anymore.

I want to ask her out, but I want to wait until I change job. But I also want to know a little bit more what this girl is thinking. We have never talked about our flirting and what it means to each other, and I want to know. Would it be ok if I initiate a little talk about this, or would it kill the flirt?

 

[Miguel]

If you're leaving, you have nothing to loose... so why not just randomlt say to her with a smiling face. "wanna date" at some random point in a flirty conversation. And if she says no say "Thats good, you had me worried their for a second," shrug it off and move on.

It's just an idea, but I think it might even get her thinking about the possibility of dating you if worse comes to worse. But do what you want anyways.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Uhh...why would you talk about flirting? Ask her to hang out or something.