"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Will talking about it kill the flirt?

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I have a flirt going on at work. It has been going on for two months now. Since we work together and all, I guess its best to keep it lightly. But the good thing is that in a few weeks we will not work together anymore.

I want to ask her out, but I want to wait until I change job. But I also want to know a little bit more what this girl is thinking. We have never talked about our flirting and what it means to each other, and I want to know. Would it be ok if I initiate a little talk about this, or would it kill the flirt?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you're leaving, you have nothing to loose... so why not just randomlt say to her with a smiling face. "wanna date" at some random point in a flirty conversation. And if she says no say "Thats good, you had me worried their for a second," shrug it off and move on.

It's just an idea, but I think it might even get her thinking about the possibility of dating you if worse comes to worse. But do what you want anyways.
 
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Uhh...why would you talk about flirting? Ask her to hang out or something.
 
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