"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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Will talking about it kill the flirt?

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Lambda

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I have a flirt going on at work. It has been going on for two months now. Since we work together and all, I guess its best to keep it lightly. But the good thing is that in a few weeks we will not work together anymore.

I want to ask her out, but I want to wait until I change job. But I also want to know a little bit more what this girl is thinking. We have never talked about our flirting and what it means to each other, and I want to know. Would it be ok if I initiate a little talk about this, or would it kill the flirt?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you're leaving, you have nothing to loose... so why not just randomlt say to her with a smiling face. "wanna date" at some random point in a flirty conversation. And if she says no say "Thats good, you had me worried their for a second," shrug it off and move on.

It's just an idea, but I think it might even get her thinking about the possibility of dating you if worse comes to worse. But do what you want anyways.
 
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Uhh...why would you talk about flirting? Ask her to hang out or something.
 
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