"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Will my ex try and get back with me?

T

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so recently i posted a new thread about dumping my ex gf

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=194035

I am a new to this site and i already know u guys will hate me for this but i wanna get ths relationship back on track despite all the crap that goes on inbetween. When we were together it really was great however i only realise how good she was to me when were apart?
This is my first proper LTR so mabye my thinkin is way off on this one and there will be loads of other women etc. My town is pretty small and aint many women or thier either taken n it just seems hard to get a decent one here lol.
i have high standards and will not just pull anything unlike some of my mates. Unsure if thats a good thing or bad.
Anyway its been 3 days since we spoke/dumped her so were bascially at NC atm.given time will she come crawling back and what do i do? do i ignore her or...?
thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zekko

zekko

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If you wanted to stay with her you shouldn't have dumped her.
Although I find the idea of "taking breaks" from the relationship to be a very unhealthy sign. Even if you guys get back together it's probably not going to work out in the long run.
 
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