"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Will my ex try and get back with me?

T

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so recently i posted a new thread about dumping my ex gf

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=194035

I am a new to this site and i already know u guys will hate me for this but i wanna get ths relationship back on track despite all the crap that goes on inbetween. When we were together it really was great however i only realise how good she was to me when were apart?
This is my first proper LTR so mabye my thinkin is way off on this one and there will be loads of other women etc. My town is pretty small and aint many women or thier either taken n it just seems hard to get a decent one here lol.
i have high standards and will not just pull anything unlike some of my mates. Unsure if thats a good thing or bad.
Anyway its been 3 days since we spoke/dumped her so were bascially at NC atm.given time will she come crawling back and what do i do? do i ignore her or...?
thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zekko

zekko

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If you wanted to stay with her you shouldn't have dumped her.
Although I find the idea of "taking breaks" from the relationship to be a very unhealthy sign. Even if you guys get back together it's probably not going to work out in the long run.
 
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