MatureDJ
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First-world countries are pretty much the absolute worst places to go on a sex tour outside of Muslim countries.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Will men of the future work 60-year careers if there is no poon in it for them?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MatureDJ
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It doesn't mean that life isn't worth living; it's that working hard in life is not worth it. And this doesn't preclude building a career - just that the incels are only in it long enough to build up a very modest nest egg from which to live cheaply.
MatureDJ
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If I were to go through a bad divorce, that would be it for me getting into "legal entanglements".
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From what my parents tell me the desire for "poon" fades after 60.
For people who are paying off their home, usually once that occurs you now have 25% less after tax expenses. You can dial down the career intensity. The compounding interest of retirement savings, combined with possibly selling and downsizing a home gives folks the financial freedom to do what they WANT TO. and HAPPY people are attractive people....
For people who are paying off their home, usually once that occurs you now have 25% less after tax expenses. You can dial down the career intensity. The compounding interest of retirement savings, combined with possibly selling and downsizing a home gives folks the financial freedom to do what they WANT TO. and HAPPY people are attractive people....
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Depends on what you're working for. If you're working hard to achieve your dreams and ambitions, I'd say it's probably worth it.
As you are perhaps implying, incels may not have that kind of drive or aspirations.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
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If you don't plan on living like them, don't listen to them. They don't want to have sex after 60, is that the group you desire to be with?
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Yes, in fact it is precisely because the incels are not motivated to work hard that so many of them NEETmax.