"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Will men of the future work 60-year careers if there is no poon in it for them?

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You need money to escortcel and buy the expensive sex toys and what have you. Even coping with inceldom requires a good paying job, dog! Look how expensive it is for a sex tour in Australia hitting hot 18-25 year old white escorts Aussies.
First-world countries are pretty much the absolute worst places to go on a sex tour outside of Muslim countries.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't get this idea that just because guys don't do well with women, that means life isn't worth living, and they immediately collapse into worthless, sniveling balls. You work to improve yourself, your lifestyle, and your options. Not to turn it over to women in exchange for sex. SMH.
It doesn't mean that life isn't worth living; it's that working hard in life is not worth it. And this doesn't preclude building a career - just that the incels are only in it long enough to build up a very modest nest egg from which to live cheaply.
 

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Didn't @LucianoMSome people get royally screwed from their divorce, go bankrupt and don't recover back as they have to make payments for the rest of their life. Not everyone has a luxury of a second chance.
If I were to go through a bad divorce, that would be it for me getting into "legal entanglements".
 

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From what my parents tell me the desire for "poon" fades after 60.

For people who are paying off their home, usually once that occurs you now have 25% less after tax expenses. You can dial down the career intensity. The compounding interest of retirement savings, combined with possibly selling and downsizing a home gives folks the financial freedom to do what they WANT TO. and HAPPY people are attractive people....
 

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It doesn't mean that life isn't worth living; it's that working hard in life is not worth it.
Depends on what you're working for. If you're working hard to achieve your dreams and ambitions, I'd say it's probably worth it.
As you are perhaps implying, incels may not have that kind of drive or aspirations.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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From what my parents tell me the desire for "poon" fades after 60.

For people who are paying off their home, usually once that occurs you now have 25% less after tax expenses. You can dial down the career intensity. The compounding interest of retirement savings, combined with possibly selling and downsizing a home gives folks the financial freedom to do what they WANT TO. and HAPPY people are attractive people....
If you don't plan on living like them, don't listen to them. They don't want to have sex after 60, is that the group you desire to be with?
 

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Depends on what you're working for. If you're working hard to achieve your dreams and ambitions, I'd say it's probably worth it.
As you are perhaps implying, incels may not have that kind of drive or aspirations.
Yes, in fact it is precisely because the incels are not motivated to work hard that so many of them NEETmax.
 

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given all the money printing, we'll be lucky if there's still a US in SIX years, much less 60
 
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