"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Will Maxtro get laid this year?

Will he do it?

  • Sure, why not?

    Votes: 14 42.4%

  • Nope not going to happen

    Votes: 12 36.4%

  • This year, ha, try never

    Votes: 7 21.2%
  • Total voters
    33
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Maxtro said:
I actually have a very good idea of what is going on with me. The trick is finding the right kind of help/therapy that can actually fix it.
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Promise me you'll at least read one article on that site. Personally, I am a big fan of "Procrastination".

This one: http://youarenotsosmart.com/2010/10/27/procrastination/

I'm going to be turning 30 at the end of August. Hopefully I'll fix my issues by then.
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If we were robots, then that would work. You could "fix" something and that would be the end of it. Unfortunately, things are not so simple. In order to "fix" something you have to work at is slowly and continuously. The longer you work at it, the less effort it takes. It gets easier over time, but you don't really "fix" anything for good... more like treat it.

It's not a switch you can flip, but that would be awesome wouldn't it?


Anyways, keep it up. You've been making progress. It may not feel like it, but you've managed to accept that you have a problem and you're getting an idea of what it is. That's a hard step, but you're doing it.

Keep going and try to brainstorm solutions if you can.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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