"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Will Maxtro get laid this year?

Will he do it?

  • Sure, why not?

    Votes: 14 42.4%
  • Nope not going to happen

    Votes: 12 36.4%
  • This year, ha, try never

    Votes: 7 21.2%

  • Total voters
    33
  • Poll closed .

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Maxtro said:
I actually have a very good idea of what is going on with me. The trick is finding the right kind of help/therapy that can actually fix it.
Promise me you'll at least read one article on that site. Personally, I am a big fan of "Procrastination".

This one: http://youarenotsosmart.com/2010/10/27/procrastination/

I'm going to be turning 30 at the end of August. Hopefully I'll fix my issues by then.
If we were robots, then that would work. You could "fix" something and that would be the end of it. Unfortunately, things are not so simple. In order to "fix" something you have to work at is slowly and continuously. The longer you work at it, the less effort it takes. It gets easier over time, but you don't really "fix" anything for good... more like treat it.

It's not a switch you can flip, but that would be awesome wouldn't it?


Anyways, keep it up. You've been making progress. It may not feel like it, but you've managed to accept that you have a problem and you're getting an idea of what it is. That's a hard step, but you're doing it.

Keep going and try to brainstorm solutions if you can.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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