Maxtro said:
Good point about not paying attention to the environment. Actually I may be thinking about that too literally.
Just start to be aware, and then you won't need to ask us as much. Instead of "hey guys, decypher this it turns into, hey guys i need to do this and this is what i have". It's a skill you have. Whenever you can, just try and connect with your environment. On the bus? Start looking around, what color is the carpet? What kind of people are on the bus? What's that funky looking thing in the distance? Where's that grinding noise coming from.... etc.
It's a simple exercise to get you to focus and pay attention to things you normally aren't aware of.
I recently went to a SoCal lair where an up and coming PUA,
Grandma, gave a talk. He told me, that
I need to be very aggressive with women. If I don't piss her off, I'm doing it wrong.
You don't need that PUA garbage. Also, you should NEVER make women angry. Teasing and annoying is perfect, getting them straight up mad to the point where they don't talk is the worst thing you can do.
A better social life wouldn't hurt either.
Go out and be more social. If the people you want to hang with won't have you, then we can help out. Who you're hanging out with is very important. Chose your group wisely.
I'm going to work on all those things in the very near future.
Work on them
now. Those are all things you can work on
right now.
Here is your goal: A steady woman.
Here's how you can get there:
1. Socializing. Talk to people, suggest meetups.
2. Being more aware of your envrionment. Do exercises.
Do those things
NOW. When you get up tomorrow, put it on your to-do list. Talk to someone, do the focus exercise for 5min, read something in the paper about what's happening in town today.
Easy, easy things you can do
RIGHT AWAY.
I don't know if writing stuff down works for you, works for me. I never forget it because it's in written in black and white. It only works if its a simple task though. So I break down big things into bite size chunks until it's all completed.
