"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Will I get fired for this?

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Am i going to get fired for throwing water on some girl?

Is that like standard fire material?

I threw like a handful of water on her and she told the supervisor. My shift ended before the supervisor could talk to me and i just bolted out of there.

Minimum wage job. Next shift is on saturday. Maybe they will forget.


Anyways what should I expect?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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( . )( . ) said:
Ouch. Sorry mate, it's a roll of the dice for you then.

If you're also Christian I'd probably start canvassing for a new job now.
Nope, no religion for me.


Bible_Belt said:
You could say you thought she was on fire.
Lol, if I am 100% sure imminent job loss is around the corner I will definitely leave on a high note by saying something along these lines.
 

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Did she file a police report?

Tell them you want to see the rule, policy, procedure etc. that says this is a fireable offense and if they don't provide it you will sue if they fire you.

Another option is to just deny it if there were no witnesses .
 

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What are doing throwing water on a chick at work? What are you 5 years old on the playground?


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Another option is to just deny it if there were no witnesses .
With her dripping wet inside the boss' office? :crackup:
 

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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( . )( . ) said:
I should have guessed from the username.
People who are subscribed to a particular religion can have narcissism lol

logicallefty said:
Did she file a police report?

Tell them you want to see the rule, policy, procedure etc. that says this is a fireable offense and if they don't provide it you will sue if they fire you.

Another option is to just deny it if there were no witnesses .
Well at this point I am going to wait it out until my next shift in 6 days. See if they forget.

TARKUS said:
What are doing throwing water on a chick at work? What are you 5 years old on the playground?

With her dripping wet inside the boss' office? :crackup:
Obviously it was stupid
 

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Are you:

A) Gay
B) Transgender
C) Non-white
D) Female

If you answered no to all the above I'd be a little concerned.
He can pretend he is gay and then use that as basis for job discrimination. If his court system is very "progressive", the judge can do the mental gymnastics required to be in his favor.
 

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That's an interesting idea, I wonder if anyone has ever pretended to be gay in order to save their job? I know where I work gay people have gotten by with some unbelieveable stuff without getting called on it, just because they don't want to deal with the discrimination hassles.
 

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zekko said:
That's an interesting idea, I wonder if anyone has ever pretended to be gay in order to save their job?
You're thinking small time man. Go big or go home.

"You're only firing me because I'm a j@wish faggot with 1/15th ties to the Cherokee nation"

Every libtard within earshot would instantly evacuate his/her bowels. The chocolate cake eating HR hens would orgasm on the spot. MSNBC "journalists" would be circling from helicopters praying to the Gods (if they believed in any) the person who's firing you looks like this. Muffington post to mommy bloggers would be "Wow...just wow" and "Here's why that's a problem"-ing as fast as their cheetos stained fingers could type.:crazy:
 

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logicallefty said:
Did she file a police report?

Tell them you want to see the rule, policy, procedure etc. that says this is a fireable offense and if they don't provide it you will sue if they fire you.

Another option is to just deny it if there were no witnesses .
lol. i'm pretty sure this would be against any work policy. you can get hit for an assault and battery charge as petty as it is, it has happened before.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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logicallefty said:
Did she file a police report?

Tell them you want to see the rule, policy, procedure etc. that says this is a fireable offense and if they don't provide it you will sue if they fire you.

Another option is to just deny it if there were no witnesses .
Hmmm, interesting.

I do wonder if more white men would get more benefit of the doubt if they'd just stand up for themselves instead of filling up with fear of losing everything and white guilt.

Take a lesson from Donald Sterling, in essence. That dude doesn't give a f*ck.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
You're thinking small time man. Go big or go home.

"You're only firing me because I'm a j@wish faggot with 1/15th ties to the Cherokee nation"

Every libtard within earshot would instantly evacuate his/her bowels. The chocolate cake eating HR hens would orgasm on the spot. MSNBC "journalists" would be circling from helicopters praying to the Gods (if they believed in any) the person who's firing you looks like this. Muffington post to mommy bloggers would be "Wow...just wow" and "Here's why that's a problem"-ing as fast as their cheetos stained fingers could type.:crazy:

Must spread around reputation...
 

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asa_don said:
lol. i'm pretty sure this would be against any work policy. you can get hit for an assault and battery charge as petty as it is, it has happened before.

Under many state laws yes this would be a crime . that's why her filing a police report , or not, is a key piece to the equation.

But in the workplace, maybe its on the books as a violation or maybe its not. If the policy only says not to "hit" another worker well guess what he didnt do that.That's why if fired you stand your ground and DEMAND to see it or tell them you will sue the company and also sue the boss that fires you personally. Watch them back pettle like a duck in a gator's mouth and see how much of a "not a big deal" it becomes.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
"You're only firing me because I'm a j@wish faggot with 1/15th ties to the Cherokee nation"
Funny you say that. I have never met a Jewish person, I've always thought that was strange. They make up a very low percentage of the state's population, and I imagine they are mostly clustered in the larger cities.

I know plenty of people who are part Cherokee though.
 

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logicallefty said:
Under many state laws yes this would be a crime . that's why her filing a police report , or not, is a key piece to the equation.

But in the workplace, maybe its on the books as a violation or maybe its not. If the policy only says not to "hit" another worker well guess what he didnt do that.That's why if fired you stand your ground and DEMAND to see it or tell them you will sue the company and also sue the boss that fires you personally. Watch them back pettle like a duck in a gator's mouth and see how much of a "not a big deal" it becomes.
he hit her with the water didn't he? they can use that against him as a crime. you don't have to use fists or hands as hitting, just throwing something can be use as an assault.


true, but i don't think he has a leg to stand on either way. they can get him on just on harassment alone, they have a broad definition to what that is even if there is no policy on the books. all she has to do is cause a stink about what he did and sue them for not doing anythng about it, his suit wouldn't matter one bit. i don't think the company would want bad pr about them not handling their employees. its his own fault anyway so he can learn a lesson from it not to do it again.



zekko said:
Funny you say that. I have never met a Jewish person, I've always thought that was strange. They make up a very low percentage of the state's population, and I imagine they are mostly clustered in the larger cities.

I know plenty of people who are part Cherokee though.
are you from the mid west? Jewish people are mostly from new york, chicago, and los angeles and have their own cities they live in, they have their own districts where they have their shops and restaurants.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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