“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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will i ever stand a chance with this bird....

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ok heres the deal

every weekend i work with this lass who im pretty sure is attracted to me. Shes always playin with her hair, bendin over infront of me, touchin me and flirting with me. infact we spend about 6hours flirtin per weekend. (we dnt get very much work done....) Another reason which makes me think she likes me is because she's always commenting how much im like her bf.. They've been off and on for a while but i dont think they gettin along at th moment.

the main issue (despite the bf) is that im 17 and shes 26/27
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds very similar to the situation I'm in, other than the age difference. That could be a huge barrier if you're looking at her in long-term prospects. It all depends on what you want from this (sex, future relationship, etc.). If you're like me (and fancy a girl who isn't someone you'd want to pump & dump), looks like you have to look elsewhere for now. If you just want some booty action, I think your chances are increased. I'd keep doing what you're doing and up it little by little. Sounds like it's working so far.
 
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Originally posted by note.the.smoke
ok heres the deal

every weekend i work with this lass who im pretty sure is attracted to me. Shes always playin with her hair, bendin over infront of me, touchin me and flirting with me. infact we spend about 6hours flirtin per weekend. (we dnt get very much work done....) Another reason which makes me think she likes me is because she's always commenting how much im like her bf.. They've been off and on for a while but i dont think they gettin along at th moment.

the main issue (despite the bf) is that im 17 and shes 26/27
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the best way to get her to make a move (subtle or not so suble) is for you to pull yourself together and realize that she's playin with you. bending over in front of you? yeah she knows that you like her and she's having a great time flexing the power that she knows she has over you.

add to the fact that she's in her late twenties she's definitely gaming. if things are as flirty as you make it out to be the best way to spark some life into this is to have your gf (or a girl you're seeing) to come by the job and pick you up from work. some way, make sure that this coworker chick sees it. the next day you'll see a whole new animal.

however if you dont have a current girl that you can make her jealous with then proceed with a real bold move; when she's laughing at one of your jokes just grab her up and kiss her real passionately. again if things are how you say/think they are this wont get you slapped. it'll make you look confident, but you cant flynch AT ALL. it has to be congruent. try this and see what happens---if you have the guts of course.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by FratAndDiddy
golden rule no.1: dont screw around with women you work with.
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He's 17; this isn't going to be a career for him. The "golden rule" you speak of only applies when you're in a job that you actually plan on doing for a very long time...
 
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Im quite aware shes just teasing me. It passes the time at work n gives me ego a boost so im loving it...

is there anyway i can exploit it and take it further? i mean from sounds of it she'd be an great shag
 
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Originally posted by note.the.smoke
Im quite aware shes just teasing me. It passes the time at work n gives me ego a boost so im loving it...

is there anyway i can exploit it and take it further? i mean from sounds of it she'd be an great shag
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Exactly how far is your head up your a$$?
 
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so far up its poppin out my neck
 
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She uses you to get worked up and horny, then goes home and fuvks her bf!! Dood she's a ATTENTION *****!! She's using you for shiats and giggles and your thinking she wants to bang you. Sorry bro, aint' going to happen but I'd still give it a go if you really don't give a fuvk.

Get a fake id made, and ask her to get some drinks and see what happens.


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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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