"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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note.the.smoke

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ok heres the deal

every weekend i work with this lass who im pretty sure is attracted to me. Shes always playin with her hair, bendin over infront of me, touchin me and flirting with me. infact we spend about 6hours flirtin per weekend. (we dnt get very much work done....) Another reason which makes me think she likes me is because she's always commenting how much im like her bf.. They've been off and on for a while but i dont think they gettin along at th moment.

the main issue (despite the bf) is that im 17 and shes 26/27
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sounds very similar to the situation I'm in, other than the age difference. That could be a huge barrier if you're looking at her in long-term prospects. It all depends on what you want from this (sex, future relationship, etc.). If you're like me (and fancy a girl who isn't someone you'd want to pump & dump), looks like you have to look elsewhere for now. If you just want some booty action, I think your chances are increased. I'd keep doing what you're doing and up it little by little. Sounds like it's working so far.
 
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Originally posted by note.the.smoke
ok heres the deal

every weekend i work with this lass who im pretty sure is attracted to me. Shes always playin with her hair, bendin over infront of me, touchin me and flirting with me. infact we spend about 6hours flirtin per weekend. (we dnt get very much work done....) Another reason which makes me think she likes me is because she's always commenting how much im like her bf.. They've been off and on for a while but i dont think they gettin along at th moment.

the main issue (despite the bf) is that im 17 and shes 26/27
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the best way to get her to make a move (subtle or not so suble) is for you to pull yourself together and realize that she's playin with you. bending over in front of you? yeah she knows that you like her and she's having a great time flexing the power that she knows she has over you.

add to the fact that she's in her late twenties she's definitely gaming. if things are as flirty as you make it out to be the best way to spark some life into this is to have your gf (or a girl you're seeing) to come by the job and pick you up from work. some way, make sure that this coworker chick sees it. the next day you'll see a whole new animal.

however if you dont have a current girl that you can make her jealous with then proceed with a real bold move; when she's laughing at one of your jokes just grab her up and kiss her real passionately. again if things are how you say/think they are this wont get you slapped. it'll make you look confident, but you cant flynch AT ALL. it has to be congruent. try this and see what happens---if you have the guts of course.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by FratAndDiddy
golden rule no.1: dont screw around with women you work with.
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He's 17; this isn't going to be a career for him. The "golden rule" you speak of only applies when you're in a job that you actually plan on doing for a very long time...
 
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Im quite aware shes just teasing me. It passes the time at work n gives me ego a boost so im loving it...

is there anyway i can exploit it and take it further? i mean from sounds of it she'd be an great shag
 
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Originally posted by note.the.smoke
Im quite aware shes just teasing me. It passes the time at work n gives me ego a boost so im loving it...

is there anyway i can exploit it and take it further? i mean from sounds of it she'd be an great shag
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Exactly how far is your head up your a$$?
 
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so far up its poppin out my neck
 
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She uses you to get worked up and horny, then goes home and fuvks her bf!! Dood she's a ATTENTION *****!! She's using you for shiats and giggles and your thinking she wants to bang you. Sorry bro, aint' going to happen but I'd still give it a go if you really don't give a fuvk.

Get a fake id made, and ask her to get some drinks and see what happens.


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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