"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Will I ever grow facial hair?

DJ_in_making

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I'm 19 and my face is still very hairless. The only hair I get is a few annoying ones around my cheeks and some peach fuzz on my chin (that I get heavily criticized on might I add). I was wondering, if I didn't grow hair by now, will I ever grow it? I'm wondering whats the average age guys start growing mustaches?
I heard if you shave it it grows back longer, but I also heard that it was an urban legend. So far the latter has been true.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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man dont worry about it..im 18 and im just starting to get some decent facial hair now and it'll be awhile before i let it grow out..i have a friend who is 29 who has less facial hair then me, but his father was the same way till he was 35 and now days he grows a full beard, no big deal
 

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Really? 35. I wonder what made it start to grow... oh, well I hear shaving is a b*tch anyway.:)
 

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Whenever you eat sandwhiches, eat the crust. Apparently it puts hair on your chest, so it couldnt hurt facial hair.
 

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I'm 19 and I can grow out my chin hair and my mustaches as an adult, yet I can go on without shaving my sideburns for a month and they won't be noticeable. On the other hand, my brother used to wear his beard long when he was 15... Everyone is different and it's very difficult to predict when you'll be able to grow your beard out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i wish my face was bald. i have been reprimanded at work because my facial hair grows by the second. shaving sucks and is a waste of time. sure it looks attractive to the ladies when you have a little stubble but they hate it when you go down on them cause it gives them beard burn
 

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dont b in a hurry my friend is a wog (hairy buggerz) and he shaves every single day seriously he gets hair grow on his cheeks illbet if he didnt shave 4 a month he look like a werewolf


edit: hes 15 yrs old
 

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Stud said:
Whenever you eat sandwhiches, eat the crust. Apparently it puts hair on your chest, so it couldnt hurt facial hair.


I hope you're joking...
 

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DJ_in_making said:
I'm 19 and my face is still very hairless. The only hair I get is a few annoying ones around my cheeks and some peach fuzz on my chin (that I get heavily criticized on might I add). I was wondering, if I didn't grow hair by now, will I ever grow it? I'm wondering whats the average age guys start growing mustaches?
I heard if you shave it it grows back longer, but I also heard that it was an urban legend. So far the latter has been true.
What ethnicity are you? I wonder if that is a factor. I am also 19 and I am Mexican-American and I too cannot grow much facial hair. I haven't shaved my mustache for 3 weeks and you can't even tell because of the thinness of growth, and all I can grow is peach fuzz on my chin, just like you. But my sideburns grow superfast.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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shaving is a pain in the ass. I have thick and dense facial hair. Need to shave every day. I have never had one hair on my top lip though. It is so thick the rasor gets snaged on the hairs, if I let it go for more than one day.

do squats if you want more facial hair lol.
 
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