"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Will HTML ever replace the printed book?

Jariel

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Just a bit of a discussion point here. I've head a lot of people who say that HTML is killing the book and magazine industry, but I'm not sure that's such a bad thing.

With the advent of the Internet, people everywhere of all backgrounds now have the freedom to express themselves, and unlike books that need to go through red tape, administration and incur a lot of expense, HTML is instant and free of any corporate politics.

Although every writer longs to hold a copy of his/her hardback book, this is really just a gesture that says "I've been approved". Likewise, when a book is on the shelf and in best seller lists, it gains publicity, but websites gain publicity too if the marketing is right. Fees can also be charged to view or download material, but will be much cheaper than books due to lack of overheads.

Also, writers don't have to fill X amount of pages before their work can be released. In theory, this reduces the amount of surplus waffling and filler material.

Anyway, just want to know your thoughts...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Despite all the good material available online, most is sh!t. Books are certainly becoming a luxury item with niche appeal, but that's due to illiteracy and lack of interest more than anything. Few young adults can hold their attention spans down long enough to read The Great Gatsby or any average length paperback, and putting that same material online won't make an iota of difference to the diminishing use of the written word.
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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I don't think so.
Sitting in front of a screen is entirely different than kicking back with a good book.

if anything it's an issue of utility, comfort, and feel.
 

Fred Da Head

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It's already pretty much done in some countries like Japan, although it's not so much general HTML as it is made-for-cellphones. Many of the best sellers are republished for cellphones, and there's even a developing market of direct-to-cellphone books, written for that specific market and that medium.

I think the practical aspect of online/electronic books will eventually win over actual books, if only because you can lug around thousands of books in one with a computer or even a palm pilot, whereas you can conceivably lug around a few, and they're bulky and not very practical.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are you serious? Never in a million years.... YouTube on the other hand....
 
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