"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Will HTML ever replace the printed book?

Jariel

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Just a bit of a discussion point here. I've head a lot of people who say that HTML is killing the book and magazine industry, but I'm not sure that's such a bad thing.

With the advent of the Internet, people everywhere of all backgrounds now have the freedom to express themselves, and unlike books that need to go through red tape, administration and incur a lot of expense, HTML is instant and free of any corporate politics.

Although every writer longs to hold a copy of his/her hardback book, this is really just a gesture that says "I've been approved". Likewise, when a book is on the shelf and in best seller lists, it gains publicity, but websites gain publicity too if the marketing is right. Fees can also be charged to view or download material, but will be much cheaper than books due to lack of overheads.

Also, writers don't have to fill X amount of pages before their work can be released. In theory, this reduces the amount of surplus waffling and filler material.

Anyway, just want to know your thoughts...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Despite all the good material available online, most is sh!t. Books are certainly becoming a luxury item with niche appeal, but that's due to illiteracy and lack of interest more than anything. Few young adults can hold their attention spans down long enough to read The Great Gatsby or any average length paperback, and putting that same material online won't make an iota of difference to the diminishing use of the written word.
 

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I don't think so.
Sitting in front of a screen is entirely different than kicking back with a good book.

if anything it's an issue of utility, comfort, and feel.
 

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It's already pretty much done in some countries like Japan, although it's not so much general HTML as it is made-for-cellphones. Many of the best sellers are republished for cellphones, and there's even a developing market of direct-to-cellphone books, written for that specific market and that medium.

I think the practical aspect of online/electronic books will eventually win over actual books, if only because you can lug around thousands of books in one with a computer or even a palm pilot, whereas you can conceivably lug around a few, and they're bulky and not very practical.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are you serious? Never in a million years.... YouTube on the other hand....
 
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