Will girls change their minds in the heat of the moment?

[Jester]

this isnt controversial dude.

ive heard a lot of girls say eww, and from that, i determine eww, means eww.

saying eww is no a preprogrammed response, that is a spur of the moment reaction caused by something to them they think is disgusting.


Prove me wrong someone. Has anyone ever seen a girl say eWW thats gross! and then immediately after seen a sexy smile and sex invitation?


I think not.

 

[fragmentor]

ty Jester, exactly what i was thinking. She's not playing around. In my experience, girls that say "ew" when talking about giving head do NOT like giving head. They're not playing around. If it's just you and her, and you've developed some type of rapport and she say "ew" then don't try pushing it or go any further. It's pretty simple.

You even say she's nieve? HELLO? she's immature and there's a close to 100% she won't give you head so don't bother wasting your time.

She said ew because she thinks it's gross (heck if she ever does give head she'll probably get the guy to wear a condom!).

 

[Nocturnal]

tell me about middle school when someone said " guy X likes girl X!" and you would say "no i dont! you're gross!"

or how about when your mom asks you if her hair is ok and you say "yeah its fine" even if its not.

or maybe when girls do something that they would be labled SLUT! for but they deny it even if its true?

what about peer (social) pressure? most girls are definitely not anxious about being the daily gossip "she did ___ she's a slut!". when fear is invoked by a threat to someone's social status.

women do act on emotion. so you might say that the emotion of "eww" is what triggered that response. but what about the emotions and feelings relating to the fear of labels and stereotypes? you cant tell me thats nonexistent.

not all girls (or guys) are emotionally strong enough to convey their true thoughts and feelings about things such as this.

 

[Jester]

dude give it up lol, youre clinging to straws man. I think anal sex is nasty, if someone asked me if i would like to perform anal sex on them, I wouldsay NO WAY, thats nasty! OF COURSE IS PREPROGRAMMED BECAUSE I PROGRAMMED IT BECAUSE I BELIEVE ITS NASTY. Same goes with everyone else unless theyre severely ****ed up, and then it doesnt matter anyway.

She thinks sucking on some guys wang like a lollipop is nasty(WHICH I DONT DISAGREE WITH LOL), therefore talking to her about it is jsut going to bring up more NASTY thoughts and so it would be ERROR.

Done and done.

 

[Nocturnal]

i think theres enough here for anyone reading to form their own opinion.

however i think jester and i aren't going to be changing our minds any time soon..

 

[semag]

I like the argument you guys have here, and I don't think either is really winning.

However, I think that giving head is not something a girl likes to do, period. Jester thinks it's gross so his opinion is already biased, and he's probably not going to listen to any of this, but check it out. That act is purely for the stimulation of the male. A female would never get anything out of it, and would do it purely as a "gift" to a guy or as a sexual act to help promote variety in the sex life.

Now, here's where the title of the thread comes in. It occured to me that a lot of times, say you get done havin your jollies by yourself, lookin at porn, say. Now, maybe I'm weird, but I know after the fact, many times you glance up at the porn and feel kinda like the 'eww' feeling, or just that it's not the same as when you were horny. It's not appealing any more.

So, does the horniness factor into the equation at all? I'm thinking for girls that do comply, you'd have to get them turned on first, and wanting it, so that they'll give you your "gift"

 

[oreo_renegade]

I;ve been away for a while, but Im back now, and I have something to add.

I can see Nocturnals "eww" as being a playful thing. Ive had plenty of oppurtunities to see girls say "no" but mean "yes."

However I dont think this is the case here, the only way to find out is to go back in time and watch Semag's chicks respond. Since we cant do that, there is no point in argueing about it.

Ill trust the man in the field (semag) and say that his gf is against sex.


Then, about the whole "gift" thing, thats somewhat true. Girls might not get as much sexual pleasure as the guy, but they still get pleasure from it.

I like hte term "gift" because I can show my point better with it. When you give someone a gift, and they really like it, and start playing with it, and enjoying it, how do you feel?

You probably feel good as well. Same thing with BJ's, if a girl makes you squirm and moan, she'll feel happier about it. Also, I know a lot of girls who just plain old like having a c0ck in their mouth. (think about eating a girl out, even though your not getting "pleasure" from it, you still woul;d get pleasure just because the girl likes it)

Go to www.girlproblems.com and look at the section (FAQ i think) about giving a guy a BJ. Read it and you'll notice that a lot of girls enjoy the BJ almost as much as you.


Hornyness factor is extremely important! If you arent aroused, and you load up a picture of a girl covered in cvm, your gonna go "*puke*" but if your all horny then you'll be like "daaaaaamn!"

Thats why you talk less, and DO more.

go to www.the-****oris.com for info about chicks, cuz im pretty sure if you get her aroused, then she will want to do things with you

 

[semag]

go to www.the-****oris.com for info about chicks, cuz im pretty sure if you get her aroused, then she will want to do things with you

I completely agree there. That site is such a wealth of knowledge it's insane.

 

[Jester]

Originally posted by semag
Jester thinks it's gross so his opinion is already biased, and he's probably not going to listen to any of this, but check it out.

Uhh semag, it is gross. I wouldnt give any guy a BJ, would you?

Now on the otherhand, I, at times like to push my girls head down so she can give me one, haha.

Anyway.

Some girls like it.

Some girls dont mind.

Some girls think its gross.

But no matter what in the right situation, you can get most girls to do just about anything.

 

[semag]

All right...

Thanks for clarifying Jester. I totally agree with you right there... and that thing about the right moment is what I was looking for...