"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Will DeBeers selling artificially produced diamond mean the end of the pvssy downpayment diamond?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.bloomberg.com/news/arti...d-to-make-u-turn-by-selling-man-made-diamonds
The company announced today that it will start selling man-made diamond jewelry at a fraction of the price of mined gems, marking a historic shift for the world’s biggest diamond miner, which vowed for years that it wouldn’t sell stones created in laboratories.
NOTE: I consider an inexpensive diamond ring to not be a downpayment of much import.

my opinion: It never was about the carbon; it was about the sh!t test of all sh!t tests for the man to prove himself worthy of entering the love canal. :down:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Funny story. When me and my now ex-wife went ring shopping, she showed me what she likes and how much it cost. I said, in front of the jeweler, you have the wrong dude if you think I am going to spend 15k for a ring. She didn't say the amount, just what she likes. The jeweler then chimed in, well, if you really love her, you'd spend 3 months salary on the woman you'll have for the rest of your life. I said, to myself.. Hmm, two depreciating assets... I offer the dude, hey, are you looking for an attractive 5' 4 blonde hair/ blue eyed woman? One may be available very soon. ;') He just smiled, my ex-wife just smirked and rolled her eyes. She told me her 1st husband spent 18k on a ring for her (which she still has and hasn't sold, that I know of). I said, perhaps you can go back with him if carbon is so important to you.. At the end, I gave in and purchased the same design of a ring off of eBay because I am a good guy. It set me back 1800.00. What's funny is she got me this big thick platinum ring for me as a wedding ring. She said she spent 3k for it. I do not wear jewelry aside from a gold chain under my shirt. I added it to the chain and cross, she said men only do that to their wives who've passed on. I said to myself, wishful thinking.

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.bloomberg.com/news/arti...d-to-make-u-turn-by-selling-man-made-diamonds


NOTE: I consider an inexpensive diamond ring to not be a downpayment of much import.

my opinion: It never was about the carbon; it was about the sh!t test of all sh!t tests for the man to prove himself worthy of entering the love canal. :down:
Except that happened long before any diamond was bought. Except maybe with you who apparently only gets laid after buying diamonds for women...

Hows that working out for you?
 
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Diamonds r brittle and it shatters like glass when enough force is applied - don't really understand why guys even fall for buying women diamonds.

Tried to sell off a diamond ring I got from an ex, couldn't, ended up giving it away.

Gold on the other hand has more value.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Diamonds r brittle and it shatters like glass when enough force is applied - don't really understand why guys even fall for buying women diamonds.

Tried to sell off a diamond ring I got from an ex, couldn't, ended up giving it away.

Gold on the other hand has more value.
Should had sold it online. I sold my ring for scrap to Midwest Refineries. Received the value of the platinum melted down. It wasn't much, but better than giving it away or throwing it away.
 
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