"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Will cuckoldry become the norm?

Aguirre

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Maybe you gotta lay of the bottle and stop doing drugs? You sound like you're on a bender. Go get some sleep you angry lonely little incel.

Now let's stop derailing. You made your point I made mine. It's clear what you stand for. Let me tell you this to end this convo: you won't reproduce,(especially white) women will keep ignoring you, the subpar women that do talk to you will keep rejecting you and Muhammed will have 5 kids who will eventually wipe your bleak azz when you are in a nursing home while they speak Berben with a head scarf on lol.
You were the one who derailed it with your schiz-soy meltdowns. But, alright Gamma, you're clearly green with white envy. Those lifts in your shoes won't make you taller nor will $80k, but nevertheless you can still look up to me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Reading a lot of Rollo tommasi recently. He pointed out a few things in his book 'Positive masculinity'
  1. Resistance to allowing men access to DNA testing
  2. The legal system holding non biological farthers liable for children they did'nt sire.
  3. Out of wedlock birth rates (41%)
  4. Assign legal fartherhood to whomever a woman says is the farther.

He also quotes as saying ' genders divided by feminism or feminine social primary will need a 'customised' form of cuckoldry that allows for the alpha fu*ks side of hypergamy to be reconciled with the beta bucks side by enlisting different
men for either purpose. What this amounts to is a socially engineered, socially acceptable, subversion of men's evolved need to verify paternity'

Do you think this will happen?
I do not think this will happen with everything. However, the fact of the matter is, at least in the US, men have been beaten down (metaphorically) as men are bad, women are good. There are less boys being raised with two parents and they do not have a masculine background. Additionally, with men jerking off online and playing video games instead of going out and making something of themselves, in general, they are becoming more feminine and weak. Women are also out earning men by over 60%. While this may not be that important, women do want men to step up.

Lastly, the divorce laws are brutal to men in most states. So, it makes marriage very risky. However, in some states, this is changing. Most likely because women are being elected into power, and they are now out earning men; so they want to protect themselves.

As far as the fatherhood issue, that can be settled pretty simply by going through genetic testing to have a child. In some states, this is now covered with insurance, and they take the male's sperm and the females egg and combine form the baby that way. While it's not practical for everyone, that is as close as 100% you can get to know that the kid is yours. Plus, you get the sperm, egg and fetus/embryo checked for all different types of mutations and abnormalities. It's the wave of the future; with positives and negatives on both sides of the coin.
 

justaroundthecorner

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Reading a lot of Rollo tommasi recently. He pointed out a few things in his book 'Positive masculinity'
  1. Resistance to allowing men access to DNA testing
  2. The legal system holding non biological farthers liable for children they did'nt sire.
  3. Out of wedlock birth rates (41%)
  4. Assign legal fartherhood to whomever a woman says is the farther.

He also quotes as saying ' genders divided by feminism or feminine social primary will need a 'customised' form of cuckoldry that allows for the alpha fu*ks side of hypergamy to be reconciled with the beta bucks side by enlisting different
men for either purpose. What this amounts to is a socially engineered, socially acceptable, subversion of men's evolved need to verify paternity'

Do you think this will happen?
It has already happened.
 
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