"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Will Covid-19 leave permanent changes for recovered survivors; a change such as sterility?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm projecting.

When I posted this thread, I was fantasizing about the ex contacting me, telling me about his ordeal with Covid-19 and how its determined that he's now sterile....would I have him as a boyfriend again.

All made up fantasy daydreaming.

Daydreaming that he'd finally realise how lucky he is that he has a woman who won't demand kids and he will start pursuing me.




One year from now, I'll be embarassed at my oneitis
yes, I'm embarassed at almost the one year mark.

I'm grateful to members here helping me get my strength and frame back. Much obliged.
 
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it is believed and proven that viruses can and do alter DNA structure. A significant amount of the evolution of our bodies was initiated by viruses. Look it up.
Do you have any sources that would at any level support the claim that this specific type of virus can effect DNA in such a way that will significantly and consistently effect sterility?

Or are we just doing that dumb thing that people do where they take a claim that may or may not be substantiated (i.e. viruses can and do alter DNA structures) and concluding that it'll be applicable to the sterility case.

I'm not denying that viruses can interact with DNA. I'm saying we shouldnt be drawing conclusions on biological phenomena as random dudes on a seduction/pua forum.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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