"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

will a girl...

Mizael

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 9, 2004
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
Age
39
will a girl forgive your mistakes, scew ups, or AFCness (once) if the girl likes you? read "how and why women test you" and wonder if she will forgive if u have failed one of the test if she has a crush for u in any way. thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

check_mate_kid_uk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 27, 2004
Messages
2,077
Reaction score
4
Location
UK
well if you act AFC she will not like you as much anyway so its not a case of forgiving its a case of not liking you as much.
 

WesCottII

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 6, 2004
Messages
1,349
Reaction score
11
Location
Nottingham
IME, women will like you for a set amount of time, regardless. If you fail to make a move within that time, her interest will fall.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 27, 2004
Messages
2,077
Reaction score
4
Location
UK
Originally posted by WesCottII
IME, women will like you for a set amount of time, regardless. If you fail to make a move within that time, her interest will fall.
yes and no, i mean your hear girls suddenly comming out and saying iv had a crush on you for the last 2 years blah blah blah.

but a lot of the time she will stop liking you with in 2 weeks so you do need to make a move quick.
 

WesCottII

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 6, 2004
Messages
1,349
Reaction score
11
Location
Nottingham
Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
yes and no, i mean your hear girls suddenly comming out and saying iv had a crush on you for the last 2 years blah blah blah.

but a lot of the time she will stop liking you with in 2 weeks so you do need to make a move quick.
Only if you're really good lucking, and really really dumb
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

rappermas

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 24, 2004
Messages
35
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Location
Colorado, USA
If you messed up in the past, but are cooler now, you can still bang her, if that's what you want to know.
 
Top