will a girl forgive your mistakes, scew ups, or AFCness (once) if the girl likes you? read "how and why women test you" and wonder if she will forgive if u have failed one of the test if she has a crush for u in any way. thanks
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
yes and no, i mean your hear girls suddenly comming out and saying iv had a crush on you for the last 2 years blah blah blah.Originally posted by WesCottII
IME, women will like you for a set amount of time, regardless. If you fail to make a move within that time, her interest will fall.
Only if you're really good lucking, and really really dumbOriginally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
yes and no, i mean your hear girls suddenly comming out and saying iv had a crush on you for the last 2 years blah blah blah.
but a lot of the time she will stop liking you with in 2 weeks so you do need to make a move quick.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.