She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
well amazon dropped them but I think someone else is going to pick up the tab. They might be going through the transfer which is why its down.Nygard said:Wait, stop. DNS is a distributed database system, even if they bully one of the organizations in charge of one of the root nodes, there's are plenty others where it could be found, so don't worry about it, that's not how they could possibly shut down Wikileaks.
Maybe something else is the problem? Perhaps they're changing servers and it takes more than a day to update information on DNS servers? A server change is plausible, seeing as they will have a lot more traffic coming in and that "Jester" hacker has been targeting them with DDoS attacks.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Apparently the US bullied their domain provider into discontinuing their service. You can now find them at wikileaks.chNygard said:Wait, stop. DNS is a distributed database system, even if they bully one of the organizations in charge of one of the root nodes, there's are plenty others where it could be found, so don't worry about it, that's not how they could possibly shut down Wikileaks.
Maybe something else is the problem? Perhaps they're changing servers and it takes more than a day to update information on DNS servers? A server change is plausible, seeing as they will have a lot more traffic coming in and that "Jester" hacker has been targeting them with DDoS attacks.
Actually, one of the transfers is from an European server to another in Ecuador, facilitated by Rafael Correa, their president, who offered extra servers for them. Latinamerica operates under a very different root server, which takes a long time to refresh. The amazon cloud services could not host them any longer due to pressure from the GOP, which is pretty understandable, I don't want my documents in servers in my own country if I can help it.Apparently the US bullied their domain provider into discontinuing their service. You can now find them at wikileaks.ch