"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wife wishes she had more partners.

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I have no idea who these two are, nor do I care. But I find her comments as a wife wishing she had more "long term" partners off-putting. I don't even believe her when she says she wanted more long term partners, I think she just said that so she didn't sound like such a wh0re. It conflicts with some of the other things she said.

She made some odd comments:
- "I wish I would have butterflied around a little bit more"

-And how she rated herself a 4 with (0=virgin and 10=sex worker), wishing she would have gone for 6 are interesting.

- "When he got to make out with Minka Kelly on ‘Parenthood,’ I was like, ‘Yes. Get it.’ We’re married; we’re not dead."

- I didn't have a lot of like long-term relationships," Lupe said of dating in her younger years. "I kind of did like six months, three months, like all through my 20s back-to-back."

This chic wants to have sex outside her marriage or is doing so currently. Maybe she wants an open relationship. In my experience these aren't things a woman that is crazy about her husbands says. Something is off here.

Kristen Bell regrets not dating more, wishes she ‘butterflied around’ before marriage to Dax Shepard

 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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1000% off-putting.

Guy seems to be typical handsome simp.

I've seen this trend many many times. He's one of those manicured pedicured white-knight types.

He's got no snake in him. A snake keeps his belly to the ground and doesn't mind crawling through dirt. He seems like a fly-boy, pleasing his strong independent mommy type. Let's his wife publicly say she wishes she would have been carouseled more. Haha humiliating...
 

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- "I wish I would have butterflied around a little bit more"

And everyone who was alive and cognizant back in The 2000s and early 10s wishes we would've spent LESS time griping over how "awful" TV and music were back then, and instead been grateful for what we had at the time



Alas, that ain't how history shook out
 

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And everyone who was alive and cognizant back in The 2000s and early 10s wishes we would've spent LESS time griping over how "awful" TV and music were back then, and instead been grateful for what we had at the time



Alas, that ain't how history shook out
Not just TV and music, but media as well. This is why we need to cherish the Huffington Post while it's still around.
 

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She's saying she wasn't a ***** before marriage.
 

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Not a good sign saying it so publicly after marriage. Might be a warning for things to come, no pun intended.
 

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I have no idea who these two are, nor do I care. But I find her comments as a wife wishing she had more "long term" partners off-putting. I don't even believe her when she says she wanted more long term partners, I think she just said that so she didn't sound like such a wh0re. It conflicts with some of the other things she said.

She made some odd comments:
- "I wish I would have butterflied around a little bit more"

-And how she rated herself a 4 with (0=virgin and 10=sex worker), wishing she would have gone for 6 are interesting.

- "When he got to make out with Minka Kelly on ‘Parenthood,’ I was like, ‘Yes. Get it.’ We’re married; we’re not dead."

- I didn't have a lot of like long-term relationships," Lupe said of dating in her younger years. "I kind of did like six months, three months, like all through my 20s back-to-back."

This chic wants to have sex outside her marriage or is doing so currently. Maybe she wants an open relationship. In my experience these aren't things a woman that is crazy about her husbands says. Something is off here.

Kristen Bell regrets not dating more, wishes she ‘butterflied around’ before marriage to Dax Shepard

You can't help the way you feel, but you can help talking about it publicly. The fact that she would say something like that, in an interview less, is extremely disrespectful to her husband. She is basically saying that she doesn't love him.
 
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You can't help the way you feel, but you can help talking abut it publicly. The fact that she would say something like that, in an interview less, is extremely disrespectful to her husband. She is basically saying that she doesn't love him.
Wonder if this guy knows it?

Towards the end of my marriage we were at a Halloween costume party. Most of the girls are in slutty costumes as is typical. My wife was cheating on me at the time and I didn't know. She made a weird comment about the neighbor girl that she was hot and I should dance with her. Thats when the light came on for me. It wasn't a threesome she was after, she was trying to pawn me off on this girl so I could be as guilty as she was!
 
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