"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wierd to call girl late at night to come over and study? 1-2pm type late

Popeyes

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Yea basically I got a number from a girl in class that lives on residence like me. We had a good convo in the class and everything, she was smily, saw her looking at me as I walked in so sat next to her and etc.

Called her 2 times in the past just about school really, short convos, but I always caught her at a bad time, so she had to drop the call.

Should I call her now and ask her if she wants to study (either in the school or rez, cuz people study this late in my school)

My room only has a chair, computer desk and bed btw, and downstairs is a mess... we both have exams coming up...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DarkLight

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You mean 1-2am, lol

Anyways... depending upon what you got going w. her... it could either be pimp, or catastrophic. You'd have to gauge that one for yourself. But if you have some confident/cool/****y w. her... and some already established rapport. Fck it.

Thing is... if you hit her up at such an hour to "study" its gonna subcommunicate way more. So thats why I mentioned, its a matter of what you already have established (and the potential from that).

Otherwise, mention how you were studying in the wee hours next time you see her, when talk of exams comes up.
If she mentions me too... bring up studying together.
From there... suave it DJ! lol

Peace'
 
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