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Wierd to call girl late at night to come over and study? 1-2pm type late

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Yea basically I got a number from a girl in class that lives on residence like me. We had a good convo in the class and everything, she was smily, saw her looking at me as I walked in so sat next to her and etc.

Called her 2 times in the past just about school really, short convos, but I always caught her at a bad time, so she had to drop the call.

Should I call her now and ask her if she wants to study (either in the school or rez, cuz people study this late in my school)

My room only has a chair, computer desk and bed btw, and downstairs is a mess... we both have exams coming up...
 

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You mean 1-2am, lol

Anyways... depending upon what you got going w. her... it could either be pimp, or catastrophic. You'd have to gauge that one for yourself. But if you have some confident/cool/****y w. her... and some already established rapport. Fck it.

Thing is... if you hit her up at such an hour to "study" its gonna subcommunicate way more. So thats why I mentioned, its a matter of what you already have established (and the potential from that).

Otherwise, mention how you were studying in the wee hours next time you see her, when talk of exams comes up.
If she mentions me too... bring up studying together.
From there... suave it DJ! lol

Peace'
 
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