"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok heres my situation. Im in my 2nd yr of college, and I dorm at school. This past week we were hit by a hurricane that wiped out electricity in many residential halls except ours.

So theres this girl that likes me and I know she does, always calling me baby and all that. So she wrote on twitter about how she was in her apartment she was bored and her dvr is broken, I then say "oh what a struggle lol". She laughs and tells me to come fix it. I didn't go.

Later that day the people that lost power had to evacuate their halls and find a place to stay. Her and her friend coincidentally stay with the girls across from where I live.

The night time came and she comes over with her friend so its me her, her friend, and my suitemate all just hanging out in his room. Then me and her leave back to my room. We cuddle, make out, clothes came off got sexual but as I tried to take her pants off shes like no bad things will happen (i tried to take it off twice) but shes laughing. I ended up not fccin her because I didnt have a condom anyway. So im thinking tomorrow night ill get it because shes staying over.
She kisses me when she sees me and came to my room the next 2 nights but didn't stay the night.

Long story short I find out she went to a party and started flirting with my friend. Im thinking about just cutting her loose.

What does it mean if she didn't let me f*** the first night?

P.S - While we were hooking up she told me things like "Ive wanted to hook up with you since last year" "Oh your so sexy" and a bunch of things that I would assume she wanted to f***
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jmac said:
Ok heres my situation. Im in my 2nd yr of college, and I dorm at school. This past week we were hit by a hurricane that wiped out electricity in many residential halls except ours.

So theres this girl that likes me and I know she does, always calling me baby and all that. So she wrote on twitter about how she was in her apartment she was bored and her dvr is broken, I then say "oh what a struggle lol". She laughs and tells me to come fix it. I didn't go.

Later that day the people that lost power had to evacuate their halls and find a place to stay. Her and her friend coincidentally stay with the girls across from where I live.

The night time came and she comes over with her friend so its me her, her friend, and my suitemate all just hanging out in his room. Then me and her leave back to my room. We cuddle, make out, clothes came off got sexual but as I tried to take her pants off shes like no bad things will happen (i tried to take it off twice) but shes laughing. I ended up not fccin her because I didnt have a condom anyway. So im thinking tomorrow night ill get it because shes staying over.
She kisses me when she sees me and came to my room the next 2 nights but didn't stay the night.

Long story short I find out she went to a party and started flirting with my friend. Im thinking about just cutting her loose.

What does it mean if she didn't let me f*** the first night?

P.S - While we were hooking up she told me things like "Ive wanted to hook up with you since last year" "Oh your so sexy" and a bunch of things that I would assume she wanted to f***
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It means you should have kept trying because her laughing was like a little game she was paying with you probably...gave up too soon bro. I woulda pushed her away and said something like "Oh, you are trouble aren't you" and laughed and went and sat further away from her...then went back a few minutes later and tried again...

Never, ever think you are gonna get another chance regardless of what is going on...that chance may never come...make the most of it while you have the opportunity...
 
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She had her period.

"Bad things are gonna happen when you take my (her) pants off" = You're in for a nasty surprise buddy lol.

Let me guess... Black pants or dark jeans.
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Or bad things = fvcking, and she wanted you to convince her why it wasn't such a bad idea after all...

ie, say something like "Oh....but sometimes bad things can feel so good...." as you start trying to rub her pvssy over her jeans...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I went for it twice, and I whispered "Good things are gunna happen" while I was kissin on her neck (I wasn't thinking in dept to make a better response). But I didnt have a condom so I didn't go much further. Btw she did have black pants.

You think I should go for it? Or just dead her because I suspect she messes with a lot of guys.
 
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Jmac said:
I went for it twice, and I whispered "Good things are gunna happen" while I was kissin on her neck (I wasn't thinking in dept to make a better response). But I didnt have a condom so I didn't go much further. Btw she did have black pants.

You think I should go for it? Or just dead her because I suspect she messes with a lot of guys.
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Maybe its her herpes flaming up?!?!?!?!:crackup:

on a seroius note - Up to you bro, try to tap it, if she plays up/ teases again/ shows low interest - walk:up:
 
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Maybe its her herpes flaming up?!?!?!?!:crackup:

on a seroius note - Up to you bro, try to tap it, if she plays up/ teases again/ shows low interest - walk:up:
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:crackup: Who knows man, Ill just let things play out, go about my business and most likely ill run into her and when I do she'll try kiss me and Ill just dodge it and give her a half ass hug, you know just to show shes not that important to me. This'll probably put her back in chase mode.

I feel like a sucker tho for not tappin it, and more of a sucker for getting involved with her.
 
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