Wierd flake

[Myrrdin]

Hello Dons,

I am in need of a little guidance. On saturday I made out with one of the girls I've been gaming. I took her to my place and we started making out again. Couldn't break LMR sadly. On tuesday we went out again and she brought up relationship issue and I was for it. Wednesday there was little contact, only 2 text exchanges. Today, I tried to call her. She rejected all of my calls after the first ring. I called her 2 times , 1.5 hours wait between them. I then sent a text "Why aren't you answering?". I called again once after an hour. Nothing. She rejected all of them.

Her IL was pretty high the last time I saw her and she was very excited.

Thoughts?

 

[Iceberg]

Hello Dons,

I am in need of a little guidance. On saturday I made out with one of the girls I've been gaming. I took her to my place and we started making out again. Couldn't break LMR sadly. On tuesday we went out again and she brought up relationship issue and I was for it. Wednesday there was little contact, only 2 text exchanges. Today, I tried to call her. She rejected all of my calls after the first ring. I called her 2 times , 1.5 hours wait between them. I then sent a text "Why aren't you answering?". I called again once after an hour. Nothing. She rejected all of them.

Her IL was pretty high the last time I saw her and she was very excited.

Thoughts?

What do you mean she brought up a relationship issue and you were for it?

 

[Myrrdin]

She told me she wanted a relationship with me and I was like: Yeah, cool.

 

[Iceberg]

She told me she wanted a relationship with me and I was like: Yeah, cool.

So you agreed to commit to a relationship with a girl a few days after making out with her for the first time?

That might be cute in 6th grade, but you're a 22 year old man.

Sorry, man. But that's an awful move. You have to make a woman earn a relationship with you. It can't just be something you hand over to a girl after making out once. You've been a member since September of last year? You should know better. A woman wants a chase. She doesn't want you wrapped around her fingers before you even get her panties off....

Learn and move forward.

 

[Myrrdin]

Yeah, it was a pretty newb move from my part.

But still. Why won't she answer? She lost interest?

 

[Iceberg]

Yeah, it was a pretty newb move from my part.

But still. Why won't she answer? She lost interest?

She's a girl. So at the end of the day, who knows how they think. Lost interest. Buyer's remorse. A guy who's more of a challenge. Could be anything.

But, she made out with a new guy (you) on Saturday and by Tuesday, she got him to commit to a relationship. What's left for her to be excited about?

It's like taking a girl home on the first night. It's fun, but afterwards you might think "Well, I banged you already...so what else is there?" You're the male equivalent of an "Easy" girl. She put in a minimal investment and already got you to give up everything.

 

[the_stig]

Stop calling her! Sounds like you're smoothering her to death. Do not contact her anymore, and if you haven't heard from her in a few days, write her off. Some girls are weird like that, she probably lost interest because she conquered you so easily.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Why do newbies always come here asking for advice AFTER they KNOW they've already fuvked it up? Okay maybe not always, but 9/10 this is the case.

Sorry, I'm not trying to sound harsh, but at what point did you think calling and texting so much within 2 hours was a good idea?

It seems like this girl controls you; everything about you. Your mood, your attitude and your outlook on life....step away for a minute and re-evaluate.

You f-ed up, she sounds like she's more complex than you realize. Leave her alone for a few days and see if she calls you.

Lastly, GOLDEN RULE OF LIFE: NEVER enter into an exclusive, committed relationship with a girl you have not slept with yet.

I'm sure there's the .001 percent exceptions to this rule, but 99% of the time if you hand over the keys to your car without knowing what kind of person is driving, your bound to lose your ride.





PIMP