"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Wierd feeling, kind of disconnected...curious.

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For the last few days, I've been really busy with schoolwork, organizing stuff, etc, and know that I will be for the next two weeks or so. Interestingly enough, I noticed recently that I havent cared that much over the last few days about the chicks...that sounds good, but I just feel disconnected. For instance, today at Tae Kwon Do, I was just feeling kind of pooped and going through the motions with my mind elsewhere, which I never do even when I'm tired, I'm usually very focused at TKD...I'm rather confused as to if this is a good thing or not. On one hand, I don't feel so distracted by girls, but on the other, I'm tired and sort of cranky, with a lot of repetitious crap to do. Any comments? Suggestions? Snide remarks? Opinions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It sounds like your brain is just a bit stressed out. That would also probably explain why you aren't distracted by the girls either, your too busy tinking about other things. If I were you though, I'd just try get a break from everything, like just take a day off where you do whatever you want to do, and your not thinking about schoolwork or anything. Even if you can't do that, I think that once everything settles down for you you'll be back to normal mentally.
 
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whenever I get this way, I just take a day off from school and get some rest and relax. Take a day where you don't worry about anything and get your energy back.
 
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well dang, if I follow this advice, I'd never go to school.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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