yeah so i got this wierd problem with my body , its like my whole left side is stronger then my right , my leg muscles are bigger on the left leg then the right , same with pecks , and arms . its really wierd. anyone got any ideas how to even things out , or experianced same problem ?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wierd body problem. half bigger then other half
- Thread starter Morphiex
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
Pretty much everyone I have come across has this. My right side is bigger and stronger than left, simply because it is the dominant side and I use it more often.
If you want to even things out, start lifting. Make sure you are keeping good perfect form and the bar is being pressed/picked up whatever in a parallel line. On your accessory work if you are using dumbbells, keep the weights on the dominant side the same from week to week until your left side catches up.
If you want to even things out, start lifting. Make sure you are keeping good perfect form and the bar is being pressed/picked up whatever in a parallel line. On your accessory work if you are using dumbbells, keep the weights on the dominant side the same from week to week until your left side catches up.
Quiksilver
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When using dumbbells, lift with your left side first. Then do that same rep/weight with your right side.
That way, you're really stressing your left side and causing it to grow. While your right side will still grow and get stronger, the stimulus won't be equal and your left side will catch up in 6 months or so.
Somebody suggested that to me awhile back and it worked alright.
That way, you're really stressing your left side and causing it to grow. While your right side will still grow and get stronger, the stimulus won't be equal and your left side will catch up in 6 months or so.
Somebody suggested that to me awhile back and it worked alright.
Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
Blasphemy!MrS said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.