"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wierd body problem. half bigger then other half

Morphiex

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yeah so i got this wierd problem with my body , its like my whole left side is stronger then my right , my leg muscles are bigger on the left leg then the right , same with pecks , and arms . its really wierd. anyone got any ideas how to even things out , or experianced same problem ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Quagmire911

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Pretty much everyone I have come across has this. My right side is bigger and stronger than left, simply because it is the dominant side and I use it more often.

If you want to even things out, start lifting. Make sure you are keeping good perfect form and the bar is being pressed/picked up whatever in a parallel line. On your accessory work if you are using dumbbells, keep the weights on the dominant side the same from week to week until your left side catches up.
 

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When using dumbbells, lift with your left side first. Then do that same rep/weight with your right side.

That way, you're really stressing your left side and causing it to grow. While your right side will still grow and get stronger, the stimulus won't be equal and your left side will catch up in 6 months or so.

Somebody suggested that to me awhile back and it worked alright.
 

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my left is more coordinated and strong than my right and I'm right handed.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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