I was working today and this lady who ive been helping out came in to pay her bill. She was with her sister and while paying her bill she said can i have one of your buisness cards cos uve been very helpful and your a "little cutie" as well. Then she was going on about how shes been a widow for 2 weeks and her friend says and that still dosnt stop her. She then said again when i was giving her the invoice "did you put your number on that" i just laughed again - infact all my collegues were laughing it seemed like a joke kinda thing. Now at the time when she was joking about wanting my number and saying i was a cutie I totally lost my composure ( this women was hot she was like 37 but had big boobs and looked like she had alot of money i would definatly bed her even though im only 20) any tips on not losing my composure in future. I find it fairly easy when im trying to attract hot girls but when they start off by complimenting me I get kinda nearvous - dunno why though- any tips?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Widow ladie hit on me
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
racerX
Don Juan
She's looking for a dude 2 weeks after her husband died?...maybe she killed him! Crazy chicks...dont people go thru a mourning period?
TheCarGuyA4
Don Juan
Man keep away, I know a guy who went through something similar, and found out that the reason she didn't care was because to was on enough anti-depressants to calm down a rabid wolverine...keep your distance.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You could be the sexual comfort that she needs at this time. We've all seen it in movies and stuff. Someone gets hurt that's near and dear to her, and she looks for sex to comfort her.
Do it. Just try not to get too emotionally attached
Do it. Just try not to get too emotionally attached
Tha Realnezz
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Yeah that's happened to me too. It's more disturbing than a compliment.