I was working today and this lady who ive been helping out came in to pay her bill. She was with her sister and while paying her bill she said can i have one of your buisness cards cos uve been very helpful and your a "little cutie" as well. Then she was going on about how shes been a widow for 2 weeks and her friend says and that still dosnt stop her. She then said again when i was giving her the invoice "did you put your number on that" i just laughed again - infact all my collegues were laughing it seemed like a joke kinda thing. Now at the time when she was joking about wanting my number and saying i was a cutie I totally lost my composure ( this women was hot she was like 37 but had big boobs and looked like she had alot of money i would definatly bed her even though im only 20) any tips on not losing my composure in future. I find it fairly easy when im trying to attract hot girls but when they start off by complimenting me I get kinda nearvous - dunno why though- any tips?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Widow ladie hit on me
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
racerX
Don Juan
She's looking for a dude 2 weeks after her husband died?...maybe she killed him! Crazy chicks...dont people go thru a mourning period?
TheCarGuyA4
Don Juan
Man keep away, I know a guy who went through something similar, and found out that the reason she didn't care was because to was on enough anti-depressants to calm down a rabid wolverine...keep your distance.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You could be the sexual comfort that she needs at this time. We've all seen it in movies and stuff. Someone gets hurt that's near and dear to her, and she looks for sex to comfort her.
Do it. Just try not to get too emotionally attached
Do it. Just try not to get too emotionally attached
Tha Realnezz
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Yeah that's happened to me too. It's more disturbing than a compliment.