I was working today and this lady who ive been helping out came in to pay her bill. She was with her sister and while paying her bill she said can i have one of your buisness cards cos uve been very helpful and your a "little cutie" as well. Then she was going on about how shes been a widow for 2 weeks and her friend says and that still dosnt stop her. She then said again when i was giving her the invoice "did you put your number on that" i just laughed again - infact all my collegues were laughing it seemed like a joke kinda thing. Now at the time when she was joking about wanting my number and saying i was a cutie I totally lost my composure ( this women was hot she was like 37 but had big boobs and looked like she had alot of money i would definatly bed her even though im only 20) any tips on not losing my composure in future. I find it fairly easy when im trying to attract hot girls but when they start off by complimenting me I get kinda nearvous - dunno why though- any tips?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Widow ladie hit on me
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
racerX
Don Juan
She's looking for a dude 2 weeks after her husband died?...maybe she killed him! Crazy chicks...dont people go thru a mourning period?
TheCarGuyA4
Don Juan
Man keep away, I know a guy who went through something similar, and found out that the reason she didn't care was because to was on enough anti-depressants to calm down a rabid wolverine...keep your distance.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You could be the sexual comfort that she needs at this time. We've all seen it in movies and stuff. Someone gets hurt that's near and dear to her, and she looks for sex to comfort her.
Do it. Just try not to get too emotionally attached
Do it. Just try not to get too emotionally attached
Tha Realnezz
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Yeah that's happened to me too. It's more disturbing than a compliment.