"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is it possible to widen your biceps? I have slight body dismorphic disorder(I think) and I can't hlep but notice how thin my biceps look. Is there anything I can do about this?

BDO is like when someone has a eating disorder. They look like they came out of a concentration camp, and they still think they are really fat. I'm the opposite. I think I'm too skinny. I realize this so its hard to really trust my own feelings about my body.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You can't arbitrarily decide which way the muscle will grow. But obviously, working your bicep, will inevitably lead to a thicker arm..from all angles.
 

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There are 2 muscles that compose the Bicep (hince the 'Bi') and you are probably only working one of them by doing palm-up curls. To work the other head of the bicep, do curls with palms facing down.
 

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Thickness comes with time my friend. If you're serious about improving your condition, or even just your biceps I recommend you do two things:

1. Get your nutrition in order, often anxieties and mood disorders such as bdd can be greatly relieved if you know that you're eating right. So there is no reason for you to look skinny/fat.

2. Start a workout routine

But first do some research (bodybuilding.com is a useful site) and if your dedicated enough, within 3 months you will look and feel like a new man.

Good luck!
 

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actually the bicep is one muscle, it just has 2 heads
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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whatever you want to call it ;)

wanna grow it, do some bi-curls and hammer curls
 

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read diesel's post... I started to work out 2 months ago and I can definitely see some good results... Gotta work.... though body dysmorphic disorder doesn't generally come alone. If it is affecting other areas of your life, then I recommend you to see a therapist.If you just feel like your arms are small, then you gotta stop bytching and start working
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Try hammer curls [thumbs up grip] and then rotate the wrist upwards at the top. Obviously this is difficult to do with a barbell, so you can either dumbbells or you can do pulley curls. For pulley curls use the handle made of rope with the balls on the end. Stand so that when all of the slack is out of the cable and the weight hasn't left the ground your forearms are just below parallel to the ground. For one thing, limiting your range of motion to your strong range will allow you to use much more weight, and thus increase the intensity factor. Also, because of the way the knife of your hand sort of grips the rope as your rotate your wrist, you'll notice an especially invigorating extra bit of pump each rep. Hope this helps.
 
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