"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Celadus

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Is it possible to widen your biceps? I have slight body dismorphic disorder(I think) and I can't hlep but notice how thin my biceps look. Is there anything I can do about this?

BDO is like when someone has a eating disorder. They look like they came out of a concentration camp, and they still think they are really fat. I'm the opposite. I think I'm too skinny. I realize this so its hard to really trust my own feelings about my body.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You can't arbitrarily decide which way the muscle will grow. But obviously, working your bicep, will inevitably lead to a thicker arm..from all angles.
 

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There are 2 muscles that compose the Bicep (hince the 'Bi') and you are probably only working one of them by doing palm-up curls. To work the other head of the bicep, do curls with palms facing down.
 

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Thickness comes with time my friend. If you're serious about improving your condition, or even just your biceps I recommend you do two things:

1. Get your nutrition in order, often anxieties and mood disorders such as bdd can be greatly relieved if you know that you're eating right. So there is no reason for you to look skinny/fat.

2. Start a workout routine

But first do some research (bodybuilding.com is a useful site) and if your dedicated enough, within 3 months you will look and feel like a new man.

Good luck!
 

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actually the bicep is one muscle, it just has 2 heads
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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whatever you want to call it ;)

wanna grow it, do some bi-curls and hammer curls
 

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read diesel's post... I started to work out 2 months ago and I can definitely see some good results... Gotta work.... though body dysmorphic disorder doesn't generally come alone. If it is affecting other areas of your life, then I recommend you to see a therapist.If you just feel like your arms are small, then you gotta stop bytching and start working
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Try hammer curls [thumbs up grip] and then rotate the wrist upwards at the top. Obviously this is difficult to do with a barbell, so you can either dumbbells or you can do pulley curls. For pulley curls use the handle made of rope with the balls on the end. Stand so that when all of the slack is out of the cable and the weight hasn't left the ground your forearms are just below parallel to the ground. For one thing, limiting your range of motion to your strong range will allow you to use much more weight, and thus increase the intensity factor. Also, because of the way the knife of your hand sort of grips the rope as your rotate your wrist, you'll notice an especially invigorating extra bit of pump each rep. Hope this helps.
 
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